{"id":3181,"date":"2021-09-24T12:22:09","date_gmt":"2021-09-24T11:22:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/?p=3181"},"modified":"2021-09-24T12:27:20","modified_gmt":"2021-09-24T11:27:20","slug":"taking-the-thought-to-court","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/?p=3181","title":{"rendered":"Taking the thought to court"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The combined effects of lockdown, helping my town respond to the pandemic, managing a growing business, while having to be in too many (virtual) places at the same time has taken its toll. &nbsp;About 6 weeks ago I was advised to take my foot of the pedal and join a group of 20 on a 5-week virtual \u201cLiving Well with Stress\u201d programme run by the NHS.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mention this not to evoke sympathy more to raise awareness of the increasing incidence of mental health issues. \u201cMy\u201d Zoom group was one of 3 being run concurrently in Sussex. Participants, ranging in age from 18 to 70, were encouraged to be on camera and contribute via the chat.&nbsp; Admitting you have an issue is a challenge; facing a screen full of people with moving stories is harder still.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We finished the programme a week ago. What did I take away from it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">The value of images and metaphors to help describe feelings: As I\u2019d previously described my situation as being like a sponge that was full to overflowing and needing squeezing dry, I found the metaphor of a stress bucket compelling and apposite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Stress-Bucket.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"663\" height=\"575\" src=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Stress-Bucket.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3182\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Stress-Bucket.png 663w, https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Stress-Bucket-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Stress-Bucket-346x300.png 346w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 663px) 100vw, 663px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Everyone has their demons: many on the programme spoke of a lack of confidence in dealing with others exacerbated by the lack of personal contact these past 18 months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">\u201cTaking the thought to court\u201d: when we are down and thinking negative thoughts its vital to examine whether those thoughts are valid or distorted and exaggerated.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Being able to recognise the symptoms and triggers: this is key to employing some of the coping strategies above.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">The importance of \u2018me\u2019 time and physical exercise: walking helps as does Yoga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the time you read this I hope to have concluded my \u2018time out\u2019 with a visit to family and friends in Lisbon and Cascais where as you can see I managed to switch off for a few days and catch up on some great books.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/IMG_5185-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I am eagerly looking forward to returning refreshed and resuming the \u201cin conversation with\u2026\u201d sessions from October and resuming my presidential duties representing <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.cilip.org.uk\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.cilip.org.uk\" target=\"_blank\">CILIP<\/a> on the global stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Presidential \u201cDebate\u201d &amp; Presidential Musings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The 3<sup>rd<\/sup> in the series is only a few weeks away (on 29<sup>th<\/sup> September).&nbsp; It\u2019s a stellar line up and the topic very timely.&nbsp; To whet your appetite, this edition\u2019s Presidential Musings column features the three speakers, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/elsua\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/elsua\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Luis Suarez<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/neilusher\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/neilusher\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Neil Usher <\/a>and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/robert-cottrill-1a50521b\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/robert-cottrill-1a50521b\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Rob Cottrill<\/a>.&nbsp; Here\u2019s a snapshot of what to expect from Luis quoting from a recent study on distributed working:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;\u201c&#8230;remote work is a win-win, because the employee can move to a location of choice and save money in cost of living, and the employer will see higher productivity and lower attrition and save on real estate costs People will gravitate to a location where they want to live, rather than where they have to live\u201d.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">And finally: in search of tolerance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These past 18 months have exposed significant divisions in our society and exacerbated the gap between the haves and have nots.&nbsp; Those dealing with the public have witnessed new lows in behaviours. Many of you are in the front line and I marvel at your ability to dust yourselves down and come back fighting when abused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As autumn approaches, schools return and people grapple with the challenge of returning (or not) to their place of work, my sincere hope is that all of us take a moment to reflect before condemning another and if you get good service, tell that person or their boss.&nbsp; We all need a lift!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thank you for reading this.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The combined effects of lockdown, helping my town respond to the pandemic, managing a growing business, while having to be in too many (virtual) places at the same time has taken its toll. &nbsp;About 6 weeks ago I was advised &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/?p=3181\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1447,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3181","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3181","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1447"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3181"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3181\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3185,"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3181\/revisions\/3185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3181"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3181"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knowledgeetal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3181"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}